This week has been an emotionally and mentally draining week. But I find in times like these, my boyfriend always surprises me. He sees that I’m sad, or knows that I’m upset, and adapts. It’s always slightly shocking to me that when my mood is struggling, he steps up to the plate to make me smile. It’s not anything big, but just dancing around or doing something silly to make me laugh really helps. So fine, maybe he doesn’t give me a billion hugs and say let’s snuggle and watch Gossip Girl…but he does his little things. And that’s what I need to appreciate. Because when you sit back and think about it, he’s trying his best in his own way. And it does make me smile. So this week, instead of a question, I pose an idea to you:
Appreciate the people around you and what they do to make you smile. ❤
What do you think? Have you had an epiphany like this??
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So ..are most boyfriends totally lame? Like obviously I love having a boyfriend; I love the constant companionship and love…but sometimes my boyfriend is just lame. He never gets excited about anything. I get that he is great and deals with my craziness, but still! And yes, I know I get excited about dumb things like a NEW EPISODE OF THE KARDASHIANS!!! But I think some things deserve excitement. So my poll question for this week is the following:
Is your boyfriend lame?
Leave me a comment and let me know!!
I have decided to instigate “Relationship Wednesday”. This is where I will post about my relationship. Why? Because my boyfriend and I have a very odd, yet very normal (I think) relationship. And I feel like I most people would relate. Also, I just kind of need to vent sometimes! You guys will be my therapy. haha. So here goes….
Today, my boyfriend called me annoying. And yes, I get that I am annoying, but you aren’t supposed to tell me that! I was like –mouth dropped open– “RUDE!!!” And he’s like “Well, you are being annoying!” And I get all huffy and storm off to the upstairs. And then I think, hmm what should I do now? And then I watch Real Housewives of New Jersey, and forget anything ever happened. So should I take these things that he says to heart? Probs not… but no one ever wants to be called annoying! And lets be honest, usually the only reason I am being annoying is because I don’t feel like he is giving me enough attention. So it really is his fault. haha. And I have told him this…but he doesn’t seem to get it. I guess I will just continue to be annoying and see what happens. 🙂
What do you think?? Does this happen to you too?? Let me know !